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Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Anxiety? or Cost?

The recent talk about mammograms has me intrigued.  One camp says that women really don’t need a mammogram until she is 50.  Another camp says that they can save lives.

Today’s Fresno Bee states:  “The U.S. Preventive Services Task Force said Monday the benefits of mammograms for women in their 40s were not worth the anxiety and costs for false results that lead to unnecessary diagnostic tests – and also did not improve survival odds.  The task force said that beginning in their 50s, women should get mammograms every other year, and women shouldn’t bother doing breast self-exams.”

WHAT?  How many women’s lives have been saved by a mammogram showing a lump that could not be felt yet?  And how many women have found a lump and then been diagnosed with breast cancer as a result of a self-exam?

I don’t believe “anxiety” plays a role here at all.  If there was a concerning area on a mammogram, tests wouldn’t cause me anxiety.  I would know that my doctors were researching a potential problem.  Isn’t it better to be proactive when it comes to life-threatening illnesses?  Mammograms?  No big deal.  They cause me no anxiety.  They’re 30 minutes out of my year. 

Somehow, just somehow, I think the word “cost” is the bigger issue here.

The proposed plan, almost 2,000 pages of new laws that most of our lawmakers have not even read, will cost approximately $500 million per page.  $500 MILLION.  And yet it will only affect you and me.  Not the lawmakers.  Hmm.  Yes, our healthcare needs reform.  But let’s find something that works for the benefit of everybody and every body.

If this is a sneak preview into proposed healthcare, “Thanks, but no thanks.”

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Christmas COSTS less?

This morning I saw a commercial on TV that I have seen multiple times over the last few weeks.  Their closing statement struck me differently this morning.  They end the spot with:  “Christmas costs less at XXXXXXX*.  (*Don’t really want to pick a fight with them, so it will remain anonymous!)

I understand the concept:  Shop at our store where things cost less. 

But…but…does Christmas truly have to ‘cost’ anything?

It just made me kind of sad that it is so commercial and dollar-oriented.  Yes, we spend money on gifts, but I rather long for a society that doesn’t place so much importance on gifts that cost money, even if it’s ‘less’ money than other stores.

As a child, I read the Little House books over and over and have always marveled at the simplicity of gifts.  It’s time to go back to those days…

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Assumptions.

Yesterday, a friend's out-of-town relative came over to drop off her two young boys for me to babysit for a few hours.  The mother (actually, it's Grandma who is raising the kids) came to the door and proceeded to 'interview' me.  (Understandable.)  She started with, "Got any kids?"  "Yes, 4.  They're teens." (Teens seemed easier to say than "I have 3 teens and 1 20-year-old out of the house.")  "Ugh - I don't envy you."  "They're great - I really enjoy my kids."  The "interview" went on with me being told that they don't watch much TV, but then gave an extensive list of PBS shows that were acceptable [I would just like to publicly thank Comcast's On Demand PBS section.  Um, not that we resorted to it or anything.].

I was so put off by the assumption that having teens is misery.  I have worked hard to raise my kids so that I enjoy them...and that other people do, too.  And, for the most part, this has happened.  (YES, we have some of 'those days'...but so does everyone else!)  But really...I can honestly say I have enjoyed each stage of child rearing.  Some seasons (and some kids!) have been easier than others, but they have all been filled with experiences I wouldn't trade.

Now, better go find a new batch of toys since I am babysitting again this evening.  And I should take an Ibuprofen early. :)

Enjoy your kids,

Cheryl

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Next time, get the ice cream.

Last Wednesday night, our 15 year old daughters performed with their high school band for the Spring Concert.  Wednesday's concert included a tribute to the Beatles, music from Shrek, and a closing number of "YMCA."  It was a fun night showcasing how much they have learned this year.  After the concert, we gave two girls a ride home.  I considered stopping for ice cream, but because it was late and the parents of the other girls might be wondering where we were, we went on home.

Little did we know that it would be the last time my husband and I would see one of the girls, Kaitlyn, who perished two days later in a plane crash with her father and two younger sisters.

Next time, we stop for the ice cream.  Spend the money, take the time, and get the ice cream.  Because for some, there may not be a next time.

Please keep this family in your prayers. 

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Things I've done or not . . .

Things I've done or not. . . .

I saw this on Danell's blog and stole it!

  • 1. Started my own blog
  • 2. Slept under the stars
  • 3. Played in a band.
  • 4. Visited Hawaii.
  • 5. Watched a meteor shower
  • 6. Given more than I can afford to charity
  • 7. Been to Disneyworld
  • 8. Climbed a mountain
  • 9. Held a praying mantis
  • 10. Sung a solo
  • 11. Bungee jumped
  • 12. Visited Paris
  • 13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
  • 14. Taught myself an art from scratch
  • 15. Adopted a child
  • 16. Had food poisoning
  • 17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
  • 18. Grown my own vegetables
  • 19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
  • 20. Slept on an overnight train
  • 21. Had a pillow fight
  • 22. Hitchhiked
  • 23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill
  • 24. Built a snow fort
  • 25. Held a lamb
  • 26. Gone skinny dipping
  • 27. Run a Marathon
  • 28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
  • 29. Seen a total eclipse
  • 30. Watched a sunrise or sunset
  • 31. Hit a home run
  • 32. Been on a cruise
  • 33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
  • 34. Visited the birthplace of my ancestors
  • 35. Seen an Amish community
  • 36. Taught myself a new language
  • 37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
  • 38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
  • 39. Gone rock climbing
  • 40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
  • 41. Sung karaoke
  • 42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
  • 43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
  • 44. Visited Africa
  • 45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
  • 46. Been transported in an ambulance
  • 47. Had my portrait painted
  • 48. Gone deep sea fishing
  • 49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
  • 50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
  • 51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
  • 52. Kissed in the rain
  • 53. Played in the mud
  • 54. Gone to a drive-in theater
  • 55. Been in a movie
  • 56. Visited the Great Wall of China
  • 57. Started a business
  • 58. Taken a martial arts class
  • 59. Visited Russia
  • 60. Served at a soup kitchen
  • 61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
  • 62. Gone whale watching
  • 63. Got flowers for no reason
  • 64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
  • 65. Gone sky diving
  • 66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
  • 67. Bounced a check
  • 68. Flown in a helicopter
  • 69. Saved a favorite childhood toy
  • 70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial
  • 71. Eaten Caviar
  • 72. Pieced a quilt
  • 73. Stood in Times Square
  • 74. Toured the Everglades
  • 75. Been fired from a job (Almost! I quit though.)
  • 76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
  • 77. Broken a bone
  • 78. Been on a speeding motorcycle
  • 79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
  • 80. Published a book
  • 81. Visited the Vatican
  • 82. Bought a brand new car
  • 83. Walked in Jerusalem
  • 84. Had my picture in the newspaper
  • 85. Read the entire Bible
  • 86. Visited the White House
  • 87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
  • 88. Had chickenpox
  • 89. Saved someone’s life
  • 90. Sat on a jury
  • 91. Met someone famous
  • 92. Joined a book club
  • 93. Lost a loved one
  • 94. Had a baby
  • 95. Seen the Alamo in person
  • 96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
  • 97. Been involved in a law suit
  • 98. Owned a cell phone
  • 99. Been stung by a bee
  • 100. Visited to Mt. Rushmore
  • 101. Learned to play a musical instrument

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Musings

The State of California recognizes Cesar Chavez's birthday (March 31) by giving its state employees the day off.  Um, Happy Cesar Chavez Day?  Funny.  They no longer recognize Abraham Lincoln's birthday or Christopher Columbus Day.  Why is this?

And why is it only acceptable to share liberal views?  Seems that those of us with conservative views get bashed for speaking up.  Of course, if I believe in the issues that go against the Bible, I am welcome to share them openly.  Why is this?

I think I'll stop my pondering now and go sew some Binkies.  Track meet this afternoon and it looks like we're going to have perfect weather for it.

Blessings,

Cheryl

Praying today for:  L, K, T, midterms; B, PET scan on Friday; N, seeing a specialist on Friday/ovarian mass.

Friday, January 30, 2009

Company Girl Coffee

Where did the week go?  Seriously - how did it get to Friday already?  Oh how I love Mondays.  I start every week with such wonderful intentions.  I decide that "This is the week I will do every Home Sanctuary challenge!"  If you've had any interest in becoming a Company Girl, this is the time to do it!  Rachel Anne is holding our hands and teaching us home organization skills step by step.  Take a minute and go read this post and see what you think!  It's something that even I can do!  We'd love to have you join us.

I have been living 2009 as if it's my last year.  No, I'm not picking clothes to be buried in - but I AM looking at my "stuff" with new eyes.  What MESSES would I leaving behind for my family to deal with?  I know I have at least 100 yards of fabric.  Wouldn't they rather find completed quilts instead of a stash of fabric?  What about these skeins of yarn?  Maybe baby blankets for future grandchildren?  Do I really still need papers from the homeschooling days?  Notsomuch.  A dear friend is using this in her email signature line: 

Make it do; clean it out; use it up; do without! 

I think I've unofficially adopted this mentality.  With a 10% pay cut now approved for my husband, it's time to get creative and be careful about what we need to spend money on.

UPDATE ON THE MACY*S SAGA:

I sent copies of my blog to Macy*s in New York.  Funny how quickly I was contacted.  They *finally* sent me a bill.  It was even for the right month.  I even walked into our Macy*s and paid it.  With a check.  I was too lazy to go to the bank and request $39 worth of nickels.  Farewell, Macy*s.

Have a blessed weekend,

Cheryl

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

PSA: The Macy*s Saga, part 2

If you missed part 1, please take a moment to read this to catch up.

I admit I was actually surprised when a Macy*s bill arrived, though the collections woman promised she would send one.  Too bad the date on it was from October (yes, a full month before I opened my account!) and my balance was $0.00.  Big surprise.  (I wonder what the IQ requirements are to work this job because I have a couple of dogs who could use jobs and they are certainly more capable and cordial than any Macy*s call center employee I have had contact with.)

Time for another call to Macy*s.  My request to talk to a supervisor was denied and instead I was stuck with a 'customer service' (those words are used pretty loosely when it comes to Macy*s) agent who was rude and condescending.  She told me that my bill is due "On the 10th - when is what?"  "It's Saturday." (I offered after a full moment passed and I could tell she was obviously not skilled enough to count up 3 days.)  I can only guess I will awake on Sunday to Macy*s collections to hassle me about not paying my $42 bill.

Her final redeeming quality is that she would waive my late fee.  A late fee for a bill never sent.

Unbelievable, Macy*s.  In this economy, you might try a little customer service if you want to stay open or you will simply be the next in a long line of stores closing their doors.

I will mention this advice.  In person.  If I ever get a bill.  That I intend to pay.  In nickels.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

PSA: While I will never shop at Macy*s again...

I'd like to think that there are enough people writing nice New Year's blogs that I can instead post a RANT about While I Will Never Shop at Macy*s Again.

In November, Layne and I purchased her formal dress at Macy*s.  When ringing it up, I was asked if I'd like to open an account and receive 20% off the dress.  My first mistake was saying, "YES, please."  Credit card arrives, but no statement.  Earlier this week, I CALL Macy*s and ask if I will be receiving a bill.  (All in all, in this economy, I think that was pretty generous on my part.)  I was assured that I was not late, that the bill would be generated in the next week or so and due the end of January.

The next day I began receiving strange phone calls from "Call Center, OH" and a recording that states I should stay on the line for a customer service person to help me.  I googled the number (gotta love Caller ID!) and see that it's Macy*s.  Um, I am pretty patient, but anyone who knows me knows that I despise the phone and it's pretty UNlikely that I will wait on the line.  More calls daily, which I ignore.  I even got one at 9:00am call this morning.  (Thanks, Macy*s.)  I hang up and mention it to Terry who says that in checking our credit reports earlier this week, a delinquent Macy*s account showed up under mine.  ("What?!")  At 11:00, I got another call.  The woman explains how the charge is small ($50'ish) and if I could just make a $5 payment, they would know I am trying.  She also told me that the call was being taped, to which I responded:  "Good!  Macy*s needs to know about the harassing calls I am getting."  I explained that I have never received a BILL and that I was not ignoring it ... I simply cannot and will not pay a bill that I haven't received yet.  She proceeded to tell me about late charges and how I am now 35 days delinquent.  (Apparently the bill-that-was-never-sent was due about the same day we bought the dress?)  I demanded that she cancel my account.  "Both accounts?"  ("What - I have TWO accounts?")  "Um, YES, please."  She assured me she was doing so.  I'm not holding my breath.  I assured her that if she will make a note that IF I AM MAILED A BILL, I AM HAPPY TO PAY IT.  And that if they called me again, I would contact my attorney.  As she began to wish me a Happy New Year, I hung up.  I can only take so much telephone in one day.

And that is why I will never shop Macy*s again.  Arrrgh.

Once I get out of collections, I shall write a lovely little New Year's Resolutions post and all that jazz.  Til then, get off the computer and go watch some football!

Cheryl

Thursday, November 13, 2008

I love Christmas!

Yes, I DO love Christmas!  I enjoy the anticipation, the look on my daughters' faces as they open a gift, pecan pie.  I love Christmas.

But in the beginning of November?  Notsomuch.  I was stunned on Monday to hear the radio play a Christmas song.  The kids told me they have been playing them on the radio for over a week.  (What would I know?  I was cruising in Mexico!)  CHRISTMAS SONGS?  What happened to Thanksgiving?

Because our amazing first born was born 10 days before Christmas, we make a distinct effort to not let her birthday get shadowed with Christmas.

So, in honor of November and Thanksgiving, please enjoy my blog's new look.  When I decorate our home for Christmas, I will change the blog over to reflect the same.  I, for one, will not celebrate Christmas until after Thanksgiving.

Blessings,

Cheryl

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Laundry-aholic.

There.  I've said it.  I like laundry.  It makes me feel good.  I never understood moms who talk about mountains of dirty laundry.  Maybe it's because ... well ... frankly, I don't want mountains of dirty socks and undies littering my home. :o)  Call me a freak.  I feel nervous when I don't have laundry to do.  I tend to create it when I don't have any to do.  "Create" as in ... washing bath mats and guest towels that aren't dirty, asking my kids if I can do their laundry (their own responsibility).

Now, if only I could be a dust-aholic.  There's a task that's for the birds!

I'd better go check those guest towels.  I don't think they've been washed in a few days...

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Lawsuit against God thrown out of court

Apparently a Nebraska legislator has had his lawsuit against GOD thrown out of court because God was not properly served due to an unlisted home address.

I'm not completely sure, but I think trying to sue God is probably dangerous business.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

The answer is: Three feet.

ATT00081 The question is:  Approximately how far is this shopping cart from the "Return Carts Here" rack?  Three feet.  Unless you loaded your groceries into your trunk and then were carried away on a stretcher, can't you just take those few extra steps and return the cart?  Give me a break.  I must be getting really old since things like this are bugging me more and more.  Walk the extra three feet, folks.  Unless you're on a stretcher, of course.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Pounding, Crashing

The pounding was getting louder by the second. This only meant one thing to me: the men were nearing at a rate I never expected. With each crashing noise and whirring of their tools, I soon expected to be face to face with the tormenters who had made my last 24 hours a living nightmare. The 15 hour break during the night was a solace to me, but I knew they would pursue their mission after they rested. Did they have a new plan for today? For now, I remained safe behind my closed door, knowing little would separate me, should the tormenters complete their task today. While the sound is deafening and my head is beginning to throb, I hear faint sounds of Jackson Browne playing in the background. "The Load Out" lyrics came to me easily and became my new focus. Maybe they will get me through the uncertainty of the next few hours. The pounding. The drilling. The air compressor that is providing power to the tormentors. It's ceaseless now. How many tormentors are there, anyway? An early, quick glimpse revealed two, but perhaps a third has joined them by now. At any rate, I am outnumbered. Today should be the end of the noise, the mess, and the need to hide behind a closed door.

And so goes day two of our flooring remodel. Thank goodness for wireless internet.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

It's bothered me all day...

Today's headlines read: "George Carlin gets last laugh at death?" Hmm. Really? George is getting the last laugh? I'll never forget the first thing I ever heard from him. It was a rant about how if you leave your cereal bowl in the kitchen sink in the morning, that evening only the Cheerios around the top edge of the bowl will be dry. "It's because they are closer to the sun." That was the only thing that stuck with me because his language was just too rough for me. But is he really getting the last laugh? In fact, I rather wonder if he is laughing at all anymore.

Acts 16:31: Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved.

Friday, July 25, 2008

He would have loved this day...

Professor Randy Pausch died this morning. Randy was an inspiration to anyone who read his story of being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Instead of whining and crying, he determined to make the most of the rest of his life, making wonderful memories for his wife and three young children. He chose to not discuss his spiritual life in public, but it is my hope that he stood before the Lord and knew Him.

Diane Sawyer stated, “He would have loved this day and would hope that you loved yours.”

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Political Musings

A quick blurb caught on TV today by Whoopi Goldberg as she discussed Hillary Clinton's vagueness on what her plans are now:  "...and it pissed me off."  That was heard seconds before clicking the TV off.  (Now, as a PSA, I was going to find the clip of her saying this, but if you Google "Whoopi Goldberg, pissed me off," 12,200 results come up and, frankly, I'm too busy to sift through them today.)

Do we as a nation take political advice from someone who talks like this? (And who, at 52 years of age, really talks like this?  I have friends in their 50's and THEY don't talk like this.) It sounds like something I would hear at a high school football game. Instead, America is eating it up and applauding on national TV. Are you kidding me?

Does Whoopi really have her pissed off finger on the political pulse of this nation? Give me a break. (I felt like John Stossel when I typed that. LOL)

Blessings,

Cheryl

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

This is not reality

I'm ashamed to say the Comcast.net homepage had something that caught my eye.  "Brad, Angelina Relocate to Riviera."  Now I am not a "Brangelina" fan.  AT ALL.  I had a few extra minutes while waiting on DD#2 to be ready for school, so I clicked my mouse.

What really caught my eye is the entourage these people travel with.

They have 4 kids.  Big deal.  I do, too.  But they travel with TWO, count 'em, TWO nannies.  What, pray tell, do Brad and Angelina do?  They've got two people to take care of their children.  Three security guards.  OK, there are people who are obsessed with stars, so I'll give them their guards.  They're staying at someone else's home.  (Too cheap to pay for a hotel? LOL)  They have a staff of 12 "to get them anything they need."

Again, what do Brad and Angelina do?  TWELVE people to take care of this family of 6??

Funny.  My family of 6 is pretty self-sufficient.  We all have responsibilities that work together to make things happen.  It's 7:55am and my second load of laundry is almost finished.  I did them both by myself.  Later I will plan dinner.  There is no staff of 12.  Now THAT is reality.

 

Brad, Angelina Relocate to Riviera

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Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt

Ken Baker, eonline
23 hours ago

The Brangelina brood has hit France, scouting locations for its next big project: Baby-delivering.

Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt and all four kids are holed up in Microsoft cofounder Paul Allen's Villa Maryland in Saint Jean Cap Ferrat on the French Riviera.

The family arrived early Monday night via private jet at Nice airport with two nannies and three security guards says an onlooker.

As E! News first reported last month, Angelina is due this summer and plans on having her baby in France.

"It's a breathtaking villa with views out over the Mediterranean [Sea] and they have roughly 12 staff on hand at all times to get them anything they need," says a source.

"They've stayed there before and love the house, it's very private and no one can see in.

The insider says that Jolie, who has two films opening at next month's Cannes film fest, will kick back while Pitt goes house-hunting.

"They love France and will now be here until after the babies are born and Angie is looking at Marseille hospitals as a potential place to give birth."

They also stayed at Paul Allen's villa for a week during Angelina's pregnancy with Shiloh in the early summer of 2006.

Jolie met Allen, who helped bankroll DreamWorks, when she was filming Shark Tale in 2004.

© 2008 E! Entertainment Television, Inc. All rights reserved., http://www.eonline.com/about/copyright/index.jsp

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

PSA

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Wow - "Secretary's Week" ala 2008 almost doesn't fit on the sign.  Give me a break.  Really, what was wrong with just being a plain ol' secretary?

 

And today I decided I don't like bell peppers and I will not eat another bell pepper.  (Theoretically, if it was the only food left in the world and would mean the difference between life and death, I WOULD eat it.)

As a kid, I never liked bell peppers.  I knew my mom was trying to poison us by sneaking them in the meatloaf (another poison). As a young wife, I began to eat them, mostly because I thought I was supposed to do.  I'd buy them because they're so beautiful.  Then they'd sit in the produce drawer until they became mushy, fuzzy and unrecognizable inside the produce bag.  Long past the compost bin stage.

So today, in an effort to feed starving children in another country, I shall never buy another bell pepper because it will only go to waste.  Farewell, capsicum.  Anyone want the green one still in the fridge?  I don't think it's fuzzy ... yet.  :o)

 

Blessings,

Cheryl

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Overheard

Overheard at a track meet yesterday:

Lady 1: "Did you hear about the new law they're making?"
Lady 2: "No, what now?"
Lady 1: "They're making it a law so you can't drive with a dog in your lap no more."
(Not, there is much I could say at this point, but I will refrain.)
Lady 2: "You're kidding! That's stupid. Next thing you know, they'll have car seats for dogs."
Lady 1: "They already do! But it doesn't hurt anything to have my dog in my lap when I'm driving. It's just stupid."

I had to turn away so my silent giggling would not get the best of me. Have you ever seen people driving with dogs in their laps? YES! It's quite possibly more distracting than driving while on the phone. But, you are surely relieved that "They're making a law so you can't do this no more." :o) I believe these women really have their thumb on the pulse of California politics and am certain we can all take their word for it.

Blessings,
Cheryl